The Law of Jante: Societal Frame Control

Sometimes two ideas go together so neatly that it almost feels silly to point it out, even if I may be the first one to do it.

I recently came across this fascinating essay by @aella_girl, where she describes a form of abuse she calls “frame control”. She does a wonderful job of explaining a quite complicated concept, and I highly encourage you to go read it, but here’s the concept in short form: Just like ideas and intentions can be communicated between the lines, by the way y…